Sunday, February 12, 2012

Woman Vs. Porn

What Woman Do For Men, What Men Do For Porn......


  Essentially, one would assume the presence of a woman to man is a glorified blessing. Someone who can cook for you, clean for you and give you every sexual command you choose. Assuming you live together, if you don't then I'm sure the woman is always there for a man in other aspects. The approach of this blog isn't what you think it would have been by reading the title. Primarily, I wanted to argue how men abandon their women for porn, I then realized that it isn't a common occurrence that a man would do something so stupid. So, I have decided to write about what a women can do for a man and what men would do for porn. It won't be a precise outline, just a general gist of it.

A woman could...
  1. Give a man emotional support.
  2. Physically and sexually meet the needs of a man.
  3. Provide a sense of need


Porn could...
  1. Not talk back and complain
  2. Show a man sexual fantasies that their women aren't spontaneous enough to try
  3. Is there at a click of a button and doesn't need to be wined and dined with the company of his right hand
However, men don't love porn as much as they love women; somehow they still feel the need to refer to it in order to stimulate their attractions or prepare themselves for a woman. For reasons beyond me men will not give up porn for a woman. But a man will allow the women to leave them because they won't leave porn. Personally, ladies porn isn't that big of a deal. If anything it is benefiting you in the long run because your man is sexually stimulated and wants to release his attractions towards you. Nowadays, women watch porn more then men and are shy to admit it. If porn isn't his first choice, if he isn't cheating on you, if he isn't addicted to the point of obsession and he is satisfying you intimately, there is no need to obsess over the fact that your man watches porn. Offer to watch it with him, you might learn something. 

This day of age porn has become something that is universally accepted and advanced that it isn't something you should be ashamed of. I am not encouraging anyone to watch porn, if it isn't something you enjoy, fine. I just don't see it to be a problem if porn is an option.

A woman can't provide all the fantasies porn can, so if your relationship is getting boring and you need something to spice it up. Don't be so quick to judge. 

Yours Truly,
xoxo
V

4 comments:

  1. Very good and true. Women are shy not only about porn but about the box of toys she secretly hides in her closet or under the bed. Being open minded goes both ways. I understand the whole woman in the street but a freak in the bedroom, but i beleive its ok for the sexuality to be alive.

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    1. Hello Pistolero,

      I appreciate your insight. It is very true, a woman is concerned by judgement and insecurities that she forgets to be open with her man and explore the possiblities.. yours truly v

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  2. Doesn't need to be wines & dined w/the company of his right or left hand lol. Don't discriminate against the lefty's now haha. Another great blog & choice of words on a realistic p.o.v. Keep'em coming Bella

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    1. hahaha thanks alot!
      and I will continue to do my best..
      Yours Truly
      V

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