Are men really looking for the girl to take home to mom?

A man wants you to love him, so you give your all.
A man says he's tired of crazy women, so your as normal as you can be.
A man says he hates a golddigger, and you try to pay for everything.
A man says his kids are his gold, so you try to spoil them too.
A man says he needs space, so you keep your distance.
A man says they want a great girl, but he will let you go.
A man isn't a man when he can't just simply tell you exactly how it is.

What do men want?!

Well, the generation we are in, they have lost respect for the quality of a good woman. Actually, I blame a lot of it on the "easy" women. It is more like slut vs. marraige type, no matter who wins men seem to be dipping into both without realizing the damage they are causing or how maybe the only reason why they marry woman now is because woman demand it.
I shall expand on my idea:

FIRST EXAMPLE- A man and woman marry, they marry because an ultimatum was given to the man..... marry me or I'm leaving...blahh blahh blahhh. Now, man is married or is in "matromonial jail" and one day is out and meets a sexy, smart and "easy" woman to lure. Guess what, I can say 80% of these men wouldn't think twice and will make miss thang their side chick. Worse part is that many woman just don't care if a man is married or not anymore. Which makes it hard to not cheat for a man, the number one reason people cheat is because there is always someone there willing to do it. Side chick thinks she's in love and he's leaving wife, then man says I don't love you, I have to be with wife for the kids. Reality check ladies, he's on safe ground with his wife.... first of all, she probably already knows he's cheating because I think wives secretly just know and she's still there folding his clothes, cooking his dinners and going to bed with him at night; not you!

SECOND EXAMPLE- Man invites you over to his house and leads you to his bedroom... Scenario #1- He's a gentleman, cuddles with you and watches a movie, a possible second date :) Scenario #2- He jumps the gun, starts making out with you, takes off your clothes and next thing you know you are already having sex; your only meant to be a sex thing for him.. Scenario #3- He tells you after sex, I'm not looking for anything serious.... blah blah blah OMG same story. A man nowadays wants a woman they can toy with and not be worried about the drama they bring to their lives. So instead of keeping you happy, they keep you as a side chick knowing they have you at their sleeve and you'll do anything to try and convince him to be serious with you. Unfortunately, for the naive woman they get played and the man moves on to the next one.

I think, that marriage isn't in the cards anymore. It is difficult to meet someone who is serious about love, nonetheless, even looking for love. I don't think men care enough anymore about the keeper, because the "easy" woman is more than willing to give him all the cookies in the oven before he even walks into the kitchen. Why try to be serious about someone ( a woman ), if a woman doesn't care what comes next besides her wishful thinking. If having sex with a man determines if he stays or not then your not finding prince charming because your kissing the wrong frogs. Let go of the users and mistreaters and respect yourself if you want a man to respect you. Truth is: He doesn't want to be serious, he wants to do what he wants.

Yours Truly,
xoxox
V