"Women lie, Men lie"

What Constitutes The Limits To a Lie?

The truth is everyone lies whether we like to accept the reality of it or not. A lot of times it has nothing to do with keeping a secret, but because not all things need to be told. I think:  That if your bf/gf had to change up a story or just not mention something to you over various amounts of times, it is probably because he/she knows that telling you the whole truth means, an argument, and just so that you stay happy and don't make anything into a big deal then as far as I'm concerned I wouldn't say anything either. 

d

I know when your being lied to over and over and the lies are escalated to a cheater, a thief or a completely 100% non-lovable individual... Then here's why they lie......Because you make it to easy for them to do so. 

1. *If he/she is cheating on you its because you either failed at being a good bf/gf or your so blind to have missed the signs that it was too easy to do it. 
2. * If he/she is lying about their whereabouts its probably because you were too controlling in the first place and you made it difficult to have freedom.
3. *If he/she are repulsive liars and insensitive then maybe you genuinely have a jerk who doesn't deserve you.

The bottom line is that I am not implying that a liar has a reason to lie, because some liars are just compulsive jerks who have no consideration for the person they are with.

However, my OPINION why people lie is because they are too afraid to approach the truth of being judged or treated differently. 

AND

Because we just and most simply CAN.

Nothing can justify a true lie, once you lied you've already lied.. No need to keep thriving off that lie. Lying becomes natural to a disease..when you do it so much it can consume your life and the only way your happy is if the natural born lies are created into daily aspects. Don't do this to yourself nor be around someone who is like this. The negative future that is ahead of you is a interference of true and sincere happiness.

A WHITE LIE:

There has been constant argument that a white lie is still a lie and no matter what, you should be punished for it. I disagree. I think that some things in a relationship are better kept unsaid. I don't think the person you are with has to know every little thought in your brain. Example: If your girl looks fat in her jeans and ask you if she does, you'll probably say, "baby you look great." I don't think that is too bad of a lie to argue about. Its natural and she probably knows she looks fat anyway because she wouldn't have been asking you if she thought she looked sexy in her outfit. I think that there is some mental space and opinionated situations that should and is acceptable to be kept to yourself.

I do not encourage compulsive liars, I do not agree with cheaters, I do not think that you should create scenarios to pretend one thing never happened.. but....

A lot of times lies are created because someone is too controlling, not there for you like they should be or just simply because they don't really love you or your too far from them to care if it hurts you. Some lies are cries for attention and those are signs to wake up and take care of the home front. 

Really, I can't tell you exactly why people lie... the truth of the matter is..Everyone does it.

Yours Truly,

XOXOXOXO

V