Why would you want love that doesn't really exist

Dear Readers:

  In most current successes in life, I have learned to gain the utmost respect for those who are able to withstand a failing and dead-end relationship. In too many cases I have been the witness to a marriage and a relationship where only one person is actually in love and the other is just there, to be there. 

The Big Question? WHY?

For the ones who fall  in love...

It makes no sense to force someone into a relationship where they are unable to love you the same way you love them. The truth is that everyday your together is everyday you are living a lie.  You might be truly and completely in love/infatuated/ obsessed/ in lust or whatever it is, but  if the other person only wanted you for one thing to begin with, and it was clear that in the beginning a relationship was not apart of the agenda.... You should just let go.  If its love and its meant to be, it will come back, otherwise if they said they don't love you... guess what?  They don't.

In every heart there is a maze and a question, its really hard for many individuals to really be themselves 100%, and sometimes it takes that one person to love you more than you need them to, just so that hidden person in you is brought out to shine. It's unfortunate that in many cases that love doesn't become mutual, but you were probably sent to be in that persons life for that specific purpose. I don't want to say that the way things turn out is Karma, but there has been reason to believe that a heart is broken because you were the one who broke a heart in the past. Love is giving a person your heart fully, trusting them enough not to break your heart....but more importantly to always keep it. 

I think....

That when love is sincere, mutual, patient, kind, warm, and not rushed one bit.. Its when it becomes the most successful. I have this way of thinking now, and its let nature take its own course. Whats meant to be just happens! We are human, we make mistakes and sometimes it takes a few lessons and heartbreaks to understand the true virtue of love.. and that is what ultimately makes it special. You gain the trust of a friendship without a secret motive of making this person yours, but simply knowing them as a person, slowly you produce a relationship that is strong enough to build itself, with trust, honesty, sincerity, and passion.. that creates love... not an attachment.

In the end,

Love can't pretend to love you

Love can't lie to you,

Love doesn't want you to find it,

it wants you to feel it...

Love isn't going to make you second guess,

Love doesn't become something you thirst,

Love is patient,

Love is kind,

Love will sometimes hurt,

Love will challenge you,

Love will embrace you...

Love catches you off guard. 

Love is never rushed or altered.

Yours Truly, 

XOXOX

V