Way too many people have fallen for these words. Especially, "I will never do it again."
Honestly people why are you so naive to believe that this is true. As personal experience, if I cheat once I know I could easily do it twice. Afterwards, I'm well aware I can continously get away with it, i'll keep doing it. Someone told me that amoungst men it is acceptable, what kind of male egotistical crap is that. So, if a woman cheats, she's a whore. But, if a man does it, he's just being a man.
"Once a player, always a player."
My favorite: "Don't hate the player, Hate the game." * and yourself for falling for it :)
Ummmmmmmm, NO. Man or woman you had the nerve to break your significant others trust, lie, decieve and CHEAT then the only collective feeling that should be processed through your itty bitty brain is SHAME.
Married couples are even worse at this. I know divorces are expensive and the paperwork is tideous, but get over it and do it. Your sitting there letting yourself be played because you need security in your life, grow up and take on the world by yourself. Obviously the person who cheated has shown you they don't need you, so what you need to do is show them the same sentiment.
Yours truly,
xoxoxo
Vivian
amen
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ReplyDeleteGood topic & this is now a days becoming more the norm than it should, but I have to say, in the defense of some, its easier said than done. 1st off you're rite the whole if a woman cheats she's considered a whore thing has to stop. I hate that guys lay out the double edge sword cuz we're extra sensitive when out feelings get hurt by women. So to make us feel better we degrade women...that's wrong & fucked up. A woman has every rite to be as big a pimp/player/curious as men are. Its human nature. With that being said cheating is neither black nor white in concept. It's a gray area of emotion & confusion that's a part of the human psyche. I'm not condoning this behavior by any means but ppl are human, & we all done stupid shit. The truth for most ppl is a painful reality, & not knowing what u got til its gone is even more of a scary thought, thus the selfishness of ones desires comes into play & u explore your options. My thought is never put it past anyone. The minute u think u have someone, the minute u think "oh my girl/man would never do this to me" is the moment u lost all perspective of the human concept of temptation. We have all faltered & many of us will do it again & again, its a part of who we are. But the consequence is what u have to face @ the end of the day, & yourself regret if it phases u. All in all keep a steady guard up & never put anything past no one, & except what may or may not come or work out. Relationships are crazy, & so is love...what a gamble we play @ the price of broken heart. I'm all in :) deal me my cards.
ReplyDeleteStill doesn't make it okay Justin. If your easily tempted, stay away from situations that tempt you. No excuses
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