You want ALL the attention; what a shame!

        The last time I checked its not all about one person. I know you want to feel like your the most important part of your other persons life, but cut it out. Especially if you are just dating I think it is most crucial to create a boundary. Limit yourself to the amount of attention that you try to suck up from the other person or else you will most certainly be portraying yourself as desperate.


First of all do not mislead the other person. What I mean is; if you are constantly on the daily basis in sync with this person don't just automatically cut it off and then assume their not going to think something is wrong. They will try to analyze every move you make after. Now for the analytical individual on the other side, relax! Please do not stalk the person. Call once and leave a voice mail,  if he/she don't call you back don't send a text again or call again.. just wait!

Let them spend time with friends if he/she tells you they're going to have a night out with friends, you should leave it at that. Don't try to make him/her feel guilty for not inviting you, don't ask to come along, don't over think the situation and accuse him/her of being with someone else. Its simple let them have fun, don't suffocate the love space. Now if it becomes something consistent and you've NEVER met his/her friends, their might not be any friends. Sorry.

Do not show up to their house unannounced you know the only reason why you decided to show up without calling or him/her is to "catch" them in the act. That is jealousy and your not his/her whole life! Take a chill pill. I know if someone I really liked was coming I'd want to make sure I look my best, I'm prepared for your presence, now if my he showed up and I'm not expecting it, I'd be upset and assume you just don't trust me.

So now that we've talked about not blowing up the phone, showing up unannounced and giving them their own time, would you overprotected, superficial, insecure individuals just leave it alone. I know your crazy head over heals for this person, but your not the only priority. We all have our own things to attend to.