You love this person for a reason and they probably have you right where they need you. You offer something more to them that the other person he/she is with can not possible give him/her. However, before this gets extremely confusing allow me to clarify. You are probably there for this person whenever you are needed and when they need a shoulder to cry on, an ear to vent in or a smile to make them laugh; you are the first superhero to the rescue.
The fact that this significant other of the person you love doesn't love him/her is not your concern. If he/she have taken the option of suffering with someone who doesn't care, then that is ultimately not your problem. Eventually, he/she will learn the hard way. Sometimes they never get out of the relationship, because controlling, abusive, demanding and ridiculous couples are usually in the relationship because its what attracts them to staying. Unfortunately, it is sadly common that someone stays with someone they don't love because they strongly believe that is as good as it gets.
As for the person stuck in this triangle loving the person who is in love with the bad guy, you need to get on your pogo stick and bounce. He/she might never love you, if they ever start to, it will be too late. It's not something you want or choose to hear but he/she will have to figure it out sometime. The longer you stick around hoping this would ever work, the longer you are sticking around hurting yourself. Don't be the guy/girl to allow your heart to be smashed on and beat. That is exactly what will happen even if he/she starts a relationship with you. I'm sorry but no happy ending story in this scene.
XOXO
Yours Truly
V-NANA
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