DO NOT- Talk about your ex!
***Ladies and gentleman please be realistic. If this other person was interested enough in you to have a first date why will you continue to rant about your past relationship? Obviously it failed and that is the exact reason why you have decided to move on, save the rest for another occasion like when this person is actually serious about you. (unless they ask, but still..keep it short)
DO NOT- Sleep Together (If your trying to be serious).
***Easy! Self explanatory, if your are looking for a sex buddy great!! skip the date and just take off your clothes , no reason to beat around the bush. However, if you are looking for Mr. Right or your future Mrs. I'd suggest you wait a few months at least.
DO NOT- Ask how much money the person makes.
***That reads Gold-digger and I know I do not want anyone trying to munch off my hard-working money.
DO NOT- Go to a movie
***What is the point of a first date if you can't even talk to each other and get to know each other?
DO NOT- Bring your really hot friend along as a third wheel
***He/She will no longer be interested in you.. and that is just plain stupid
DO's
DO- Ask questions
***Find out if your into this person, ask about hobbies and interests in life. Future goals, short-term goals. Its absolutely good to know if you share anything in common as oppose to making yourself a commodity.
DO- Dress appropriately
*** Ladies do not wear anything that screams slut or old lady... Gentleman-be just that.. don't look raggedy or like your going to a wedding...stay in the middle.
Most importantly; be yourself and have fun. The entire point of dating is to find that right person and if you see things you just don't like, don't ignore them they might cause a major issue in the future. Although, keep in mind not to be over analytic.
XoXo
Yours Truely
V
Def like you're style & approach on this one. There were somethings you left out that I would put in like DO keep mints or some kind of gum on you. Just in case you go out to dinner & indulge in garlic type foods. You may want to freshin up the breath a tad bit before gettin all close up & personal. DO NOT overly talk. Do not cut the person off during mid sentence, & do not tell your life story since child birth. It's too soon keep the convo up to date, & save the times you wet the bed as a child for once the relationship is official. Fellas DO open doors, pull out her chair @ the dinner table, tell her how beautiful she is. She spent a lot of time getting ready...let her know u recognize her efforts in lookin amazing. DO NOT let out bodily functions such burping or gas. This should be self explanatory but some ppl are just that retarded to do it any way. This is just a no no. Wait 6 months to a year before u get that comfortable lol. Other than that enjoy ya date(s) who knows the person you go out w/may be the happily ever after you been waiting for...praying for. Keep your heart open.
ReplyDeletehahah thanks for having my back Justin, I did forget those two.. ooops
ReplyDelete<3 ViviNana