Social Life or Your Child?

A Man Who Chooses To Party Over Spending a Weekend With His Child; IS NOT A MAN!

I truly  100% wanted to avoid talking about this topic because I feel like I would only be providing a bias opinion. I will try my best to respond to this blog concern without including my personal emotional attachment; hard but possible.. so Here we go!

• If he doesn't call to ask how the baby is doing
• If he doesn't give you money for diapers, wipes, food, etc..
• If he only sees his child once a month, week, year or hasn't at all
• If he rather be on a date or go to the club one weekend then be with his kids

If he makes excuses all the time for little to no reason at all,

HE'S A STUPID DEADBEAT DAD

I don't think there is any reason at all a father should come up with reasons why seeing their children isn't a "convenient" time for them. For a reason beyond me, I cannot understand why a man feels that he has zero obligation to take care of a child he clearly conceived. I feel a man like that is selfish, immature, ridiculous and an idiot. I know some men can't control when they are able to see their children, but take the initiative to be there when your most needed for your child with all feelings to the side towards your "baby momma." 

I say MAN UP and take care of your responsibilities. I don't think there is a reason or explanation why a man can be so negligent and insensitive. There's no reason why he should have an excuse or a reason. It disgusts me to see a child be denied, ignored, forgotten or left. 

As for the ladies, don't worry about a man who doesn't care to be there for your child. The law is behind you and all you have to do is put him on child support and never have to deal with him ever again. If he doesn't want to be there than that's his problem, he is the only one who will feel as if he were less of a man when his own child denies him when he needs him/her. Be strong and look towards the future and worry about explaining things to your children when they are MUCH older. For now, all you can do is smile, be grateful for the amazing children God has placed in your arms and love them eternally. 

Yours Truly,

XOXOXO

Vivian