Tuesday, May 3, 2011

"I'm Your Girlfriend Not Your Babysitter, GROW UP"


Things You Shouldn't Expect Your Girlfriend To Do For You, Just Because Your Not Mature

Ladies, this has to be one of the things that make our faces turn the other way. When a man can't hold his own ground or continuously insists that we be their "mommy" its time to step away and tell them to "Grow Up!" Here is a list of things, as a woman, I believe a man shouldn't expect from a woman, nonetheless, do for themselves.

1. Pay A Mans Bills-  There is nothing wrong with your girlfriend helping you once in a while if you are struggling in this tough economy, but do not expect us to pay for EVERY meal, EVERY bill, EVERY little thing your heart desires or keep track of your bills and have to constantly remind you what needs to be paid. 

2.Tell Them To Cook Something The Way Mommy Makes It- Please do not tell your girlfriend how much you want her to do things the way your mom did them for you! Especially cooking, its okay to get away with a few recipes here and there, but, when a dish is made and you send it back saying it doesn't taste like your mom's, then we have a problem. 

3.Take Initiative- Woman don't like to be bossed around, but I can speak for most when I say, we hate making all the decisions. Do us a favor and be a man, when we need you to stand up for us, take us on spontaneous dates; rather then us always trying to make things interesting and please take control of difficult situations and let your girlfriend know you are there for her.


4.If you live together; clean!- You can not actually expect the lady to do everything around the house, we are in a new day of age. Women actually work, go to school and worry about many other responsibilities, therefore, you can pick up a dish or at least clean up after yourself. Like I said before, we are not your mothers.


5. He's Playing Games, ALL day- Your girlfriend wants to spend time with you, but your constantly on your PS3 or Xbox! Do not expect her to sit around accepting that your still acting like a teen, she'll need a man , so start acting like one.


6.He Wants To Be With His Friends- There is nothing wrong with being with the guys and spending time with them. Space is definitely needed, however, when your with your girl and its one on one time with her; DO NOT bring your guys with you all the time, we are not in high school anymore so stop acting like it.  


Gentleman, these are only a few things that drive us ladies crazy. Ladies, what am I missing? Your girl will get frustrated with you and leave. 


Xoxo
Yours Truly,
ViviNana

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